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爸爸搞定哭鬧寶寶10個絕招

忙碌的爸爸偶爾信誓旦旦帶一次寶貝,誰知小寶貝偏偏不給面子,即便抱在懷裏依然哭鬧不休。做爸爸的坐也不是,站也不是,惶惶然不知如何應對。將小寶貝順手交給一旁的媽咪,也許是最省事的辦法。不過,如果你不想在媽咪面前有掉鏈子的感覺,有心將哭鬧不休的小寶貝安撫得服服帖帖,勸你還是學學本期羅列的這些西方爸爸們的絕招吧!

[B][color="Purple"]絕招1:走進寶貝心靈的撫慰[/B]
  寶貝餓了,爸爸卻在給他播放他最喜愛的音樂;寶貝出牙感覺不舒服了,爸爸卻在給寶貝更換尿布……所有類似牛頭不對馬嘴的做法對於安撫哭鬧的寶貝自然無濟於事。
  安撫哭鬧寶貝最重要的事情就是找出寶貝哭鬧的原因,再針對實際情況採取相應的措施。確認寶貝的需要看起來是一件十分簡單的事情,但是對於年齡比較小,還不會正確表達自己需要的寶貝來說,爸爸想要明白寶貝的真實需要確實必須學會更好地瞭解、觀察寶貝。很多爸爸平時帶寶貝比較少,對寶貝的需求無從瞭解,那麼通過進行多方位的嘗試來確認寶貝的需要,不失為一頭霧水的爸爸們尋找安撫寶貝途徑的好方法。只要多方出擊,從不同的側面嘗試,爸爸的撫慰總會在寶貝的哭鬧聲中產生作用。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招2:帶著寶貝去兜風[/B]
  無論白天還是黑夜,只要寶貝不是因為健康原因哭鬧,將寶貝約束在私家車的安全座椅上,風風火火在戶外轉上一圈是安撫哭鬧寶貝非常有效的方法。望著戶外不斷變化的風景或者閃閃爍爍的霓虹,應接不暇的小寶貝一定將哭鬧的念頭拋在九霄雲外,乖乖地嗯嗯啊啊著表達自己無邊的快樂與驚喜。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招3:犧牲手指讓寶貝啃一啃[/B]
  如果不清楚寶貝哭鬧的原因,將自己的手指伸出去讓寶貝吮吸不失為一個最簡單有效的安撫哭鬧寶貝的好方法。幾個月的寶貝有著強烈的吸吮需要,並且吸吮也是寶貝自我安慰的一種有效方式。一旦將手指伸進寶貝嘴邊,寶貝通常都會條件反射似地停止哭鬧,轉而津津有味地吸吮伸向他嘴邊的手指。不過將手指伸進寶貝小嘴巴的時候,切記要保證手指的乾淨,並且指甲朝下,以免指甲蓋傷到寶貝的上顎。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招4:來點美食的誘惑[/B]
  饑餓或者口渴是引起寶貝哭鬧的常見原因之一。如果媽咪不在家,孤立無援的爸爸可以在奶瓶裏裝上溫水或者溫熱的奶水,喂給寶貝喝。即便寶貝不餓,奶瓶或者奶嘴也能帶給寶貝安慰。寶貝通常都會比較喜歡吸吮奶嘴,或者用舌頭頂著奶嘴玩耍。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招5:體驗“坐飛機”的快樂[/B]
  幾乎所有的寶貝天生就喜歡被輕輕地搖晃,因此,當寶貝哭鬧時,讓小寶貝躺在爸爸強健的肘彎裏,或者汽車座椅、搖籃裏,輕輕地搖晃,讓寶貝體驗“坐飛機”的奇特感覺是擺脫哭鬧的有效方法之一。被搖晃的寶貝通常都會很快安定下來,並且讓小寶貝“坐飛機”還是一件一舉兩得的事情,這種活動既撫慰了哭鬧的小寶貝,還可以讓小寶貝在被搖晃的過程中被動地得到鍛煉。

[B][color="purple"]絕招6:給寶貝來個“空中飛毯”[/B]
  “空中飛毯”遊戲非常簡單,就是將寶貝輕輕地拋向空中,然後接住。這是一項寶貝非常喜歡,爸爸也樂得嘗試但是讓媽咪提心吊膽的遊戲。有心的爸爸可以通過添加一些別的有趣的遊戲元素,讓“空中飛毯”遊戲擺脫單調乏味的境地,讓寶貝玩得更加有滋有味:抓住小寶貝的兩隻小胳膊,讓寶貝騎在爸爸脖子上,輕柔地邁著舞步前後左右搖晃著走上幾圈,然後在保證安全的前提下將寶貝扔在空中接住,再扔在空中接住,如此反復。還可以將寶貝放在膝蓋上,一邊哼唱一些柔和的曲子一邊輕輕地跺腳、顛腳、左右搖晃雙腿,或者將雙腿前伸,降低膝蓋的高度再將膝蓋抬起來……這些不斷變化的花樣會帶給寶貝很多新奇的感受,讓他很快在好奇心的驅使下忘記掛在小腮幫上的眼淚。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招7:展示驚人的表演絕技[/B]
  變換說話的聲調、拍手、跺腳、砸舌、敲打寶貝附近的傢俱或者將物件扔在硬表面上會發出各種各樣奇奇怪怪的響聲。這些不同尋常的響聲可以有效地吸引寶貝的注意力,讓哭鬧的寶貝很快安靜下來。對著寶貝做鬼臉,將東西放在頭頂,故意讓它墜落,然後假裝很沮喪地將它撿起來,再讓它墜落,如此反復。讓寶貝看到爸爸平時難得一見的笨拙可笑的模樣,一定帶給他很多意想不到的快樂。爸爸的演技即便不怎麼樣,也要儘量將每個動作做得十分誇張、怪異,這樣才能更加有效地吸引並安撫哭鬧的寶貝。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招8:做個“搖滾”爸爸[/B]
  哼唱一些流行歌曲,並模仿搖滾歌星的動作可能讓寶貝感覺十分好奇。Lanigan常常通過哼唱Patsy Cline的《瘋狂》——一首很美但是比較沉悶的歌曲來安撫他的小寶貝。Ray Charles的歌曲也都不錯,可以擔當安撫哭鬧寶貝的重任。不過寶貝感興趣的並非歌曲本身,而是爸爸那些奇奇怪怪的動作。要做個寶貝喜歡的“搖滾”爸爸,千萬不要盲目地模仿某個歌星,而應該根據寶貝的喜惡選擇適合寶貝的歌曲。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招9:發揮嬰兒背帶的大用場[/B]
  將哭鬧的寶貝放在那種前置背帶裏,讓寶貝感受爸爸的體溫,傾聽爸爸的心跳聲可以有效地緩解寶貝的哭鬧。如果再帶著寶貝走上幾步,也許過不了幾分鐘,寶貝就會在背帶裏安然入睡。

  [B][color="purple"]絕招10:讓寶貝哭得淋漓盡致[/B]
  有的時候,無論怎麼安撫,寶貝都會哭鬧不休。這個時候,如果寶貝沒有身體上的疼痛,也不是因為饑餓、疲乏、尿濕等原因哭鬧,並且他也拒絕被爸爸摟抱或者搖晃,那麼寶貝可能僅僅是想通過哭泣來發洩一番。如果碰上這種情況,無法忍受寶貝哭鬧聲的爸爸最好戴上耳塞,並儘量控制自己心中的怒火,給寶貝一個哭泣的機會。一旦寶貝哭夠了,他的情緒也會隨之變好。
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